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Kaybree is 2!

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Funny, when Kaybree turned 1 I felt like it was ABOUT TIME! Now that she's two I'm thinking ALREADY?! That went fast. You were a baby four months ago. Now you're a full blown little girl!
We didn't do much for your birthday. We went swimming at Grandma Vance's house because the pool is beautiful and there's not much else to do to celebrate a June birthday. I decided a long time ago we'll do a big party for 1, 5, 8, 12 and 16. So this wasn't a huge birthday so we just invited family (plus Melissa and Brekken).

It was fun! You were spoiled.



You're not big on swimming but you enjoy playing on the first step.



It's so cute when you grab Brekken's hand to get him to go somewhere with you. You're pretty bossy but he's sweet and doesn't mind.


Grandpa Vance is the best!












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